Journalist Kanze Dena was overcome with emotion as she shared memories of her late uncle, MP Joseph Hamisi Denar, reflecting on the pivotal role he played in her life.
Kanze recalled her uncle’s wise counsel during two significant milestones: her appointment as State House spokesperson and her wedding day.
Denar, who she described as a father figure, left a lasting impact on her, and she broke down while saying her final goodbyes during his memorial service at Ridgeways Baptist Church.
Kanze’s grief was evident when she viewed the late MP’s body at Lee Funeral Home, drawing heartfelt sympathy from Kenyans across social media.
Many were curious about her relationship with the deceased, and during the memorial service, she confirmed that she was his niece.
She fondly remembered Denar’s unwavering love for the extended family and the guidance he consistently offered.
He was known for emphasizing family unity and personal integrity, always reminding his relatives not to bring shame upon him or the family name.
Kanze recounted his words of wisdom: “We disappointed you many times in our lives, but even then you would tell us firmly that you were disappointed, and with love you gave guidance.
Unity, integrity, excellence, and purpose is what you expected of us. ‘I don’t want shame, have you heard? Look for money; life is sweet when you have money.’”
Through her tearful tribute, Kanze highlighted not only the personal loss she felt but also the lasting influence her uncle had on shaping her values and character.
His teachings of responsibility, ambition, and family commitment remain deeply ingrained in her life, serving as a lasting legacy that continues to inspire her both personally and professionally.
Kanze’s heartfelt recollection resonated widely, reminding many of the profound bond between family and the enduring guidance of loved ones, even after they are gone.
She remembered her uncle’s severe words when she was named State House spokesman in Uhuru’s government.
“I remember when I was appointed to the State House; he phoned me and said, ‘You know you are not a thief, and you don’t know how to steal.
You have no idea how to strike a transaction; do not try it there. You’ll get caught. I don’t want to be ashamed, so please work, you and your aunt. “Lo and behold, I did not attempt until I finished,” she explained.
By tuko