The custody dispute involving Pastor Kanyari, his former wife Betty Bayo, and her current husband has continued to attract tension.
The discussion took a sharp turn after Kanyari’s brother made a remark referring to Betty as Superglue. This comment has stirred public reactions and drawn criticism toward the Kanyari family.
The nickname seemed disrespectful to many and went viral on social media, perpetuating a new wave of controversy relating to how the family was addressing what was already a sensitive issue.
Many commented that such a label was not really necessary but just added heat to an issue that already affects children who are caught in the middle.
This feud comes amid Kanyari’s push to have his children live with him. He is said to be uncomfortable with the idea of the children growing up under the care of Betty’s husband.
Kanyari insists that he wants a more intimate involvement in their daily lives and that he can offer a more secure environment.
For her part, Betty has insisted that the children are safe and cared for. She has avoided responding to the name-calling and has called for calm and respect during the process.
Her allies believe that public outbursts and personal attacks also cloud matters better left between the individuals and in privacy.
Family counsellors and child welfare advocates chimed in online to remind both sides that the best interests of the children must be paramount.
They say public disputes, especially those laced with personal attacks, cause long-lasting emotional damage.
As the custody process continues to unfold, pressure mounts on both families to soften public disputes.
For now, all eyes are on how they take the next step and whether they will rise above the din to find a solution that best serves the children at the center of it all.
By Newsmedia