A South African man, Zakhele Dube, has set social media ablaze after proudly showing off his two wives in twinning outfits — a bold display of unity that has divided opinion across the continent.
The electrician, who openly embraces his polygamous lifestyle, often posts videos and photos of his family on TikTok, where the trio is seen laughing, dancing, and spending time together. His wives, always dressed alike and driving identical cars, appear content, challenging the stereotypes around jealousy and rivalry in polygamous homes.
“When I was pregnant, she was there for me,” Zakhele’s first wife shared, praising her co-wife for her support. The family’s seemingly harmonious life has drawn admiration from some viewers who celebrate Zakhele for “keeping African traditions alive.”
“Polygamy is here to stay,” Zakhele declared confidently in one of his viral clips.
However, not everyone was impressed. Critics questioned the fairness of such arrangements, arguing that they often mask emotional struggles. “Polygamy on its own is disrespect,” one woman commented. Another confessed, “I walked away when my husband wanted a second wife — I couldn’t handle that pain.”
Despite the backlash, Zakhele insists that marriage, whether monogamous or polygamous, thrives on honesty, respect, and mutual understanding. “Leaving marriages isn’t always the answer,” he cautioned, urging couples to communicate rather than separate.
His unconventional family has become a symbol of modern-day polygamy — both celebrated and condemned in equal measure. Whether viewed as love in abundance or love on borrowed peace, Zakhele’s story has reminded the internet of one thing: not all marriages are built the same, and happiness, it seems, wears many faces.
By tuko