A family in Meru County has been left heartbroken after a local Catholic church reportedly refused to conduct burial rites for their grandmother, who had faithfully served the parish for decades, citing unpaid contributions totaling KSh 6,300.
Rael Mwathirwa Ibaya, who recently celebrated her centenary, had been a devoted member of the church in Athwana Ward, Tigania West Constituency. Her grandson, Festus, recounted that the elderly woman had remained active in church activities for most of her life, only slowing down in her later years due to age and health challenges.
“When we approached the church for burial arrangements, we were asked to confirm if she owed any dues,” Festus said. “It was shocking to learn that a small unpaid balance could prevent the burial of someone who had given her entire life to the church.”
Despite heartfelt appeals from the family, the church reportedly stood firm, insisting that the KSh 6,300 arrears be cleared before any burial rites could proceed. The family, stunned and frustrated, began exploring alternatives to honor their matriarch’s legacy.
A relative, who also serves as a pastor, has since stepped in to officiate the burial service, which is scheduled for Saturday, April 4. The incident has sparked conversations across the community about the balance between financial obligations and compassion, especially for those who have dedicated decades of service.
Neighbors and community members have expressed outrage, questioning whether monetary matters should override respect and dignity in death. For the family, the priority remains ensuring their grandmother receives a dignified farewell that honors her long and faithful life.
As the burial approaches, this story continues to highlight a sensitive tension between institutional rules and human empathy, igniting a broader discussion on the role of religious organizations in moments of grief.