Social media is playing a big role in how couples in Kenya interact today. Instagram, in particular, has changed the way people connect and show their relationships to others. While it can help couples share moments and stay close, it also brings new challenges like jealousy, comparison, and trust issues.
Many couples use Instagram to show their love to the world. A dinner in Nairobi, a weekend trip to Mombasa, or even a quiet evening at home can be posted online. Sharing these moments can make couples feel proud and connected. However, it can also create pressure to appear perfect and maintain a certain image in front of others.
Jealousy is a growing problem for many Kenyan couples. Seeing a partner like or comment on someone else’s post can cause doubt. Comparing one’s relationship to others on Instagram can also create feelings of insecurity. These problems are stronger in Kenya where social expectations and peer pressure are high.
Despite the challenges, Instagram can be helpful, especially for couples who are far apart. Sharing messages and posts allows them to stay connected even when they cannot meet. Communication is key. Couples need to talk openly about how social media affects them and set rules that work for both.
Spending real time together, focusing on the relationship rather than online appearances, and discussing feelings of jealousy can help maintain trust. Instagram should strengthen love, not create tension. When used well, it can bring couples closer and keep the relationship strong.
By DSTV