Kenyan TikToker and content creator Pamela Aely has opened up about a deeply personal and emotional battle involving her child’s father, who she claims has resurfaced years after abandoning her during pregnancy and now wants to take her to court for child custody.
Pamela, who works with popular media personality Oga Obinna, shared her story during an interview and on TikTok livestreams, revealing that the man identified as Joseph Morara from Kisii had previously asked her to terminate the pregnancy.
According to Pamela, when she refused, he blocked her, cut off all communication, and disappeared from her life entirely.
She stated that she has raised her son as a single mother since then, with her mum playing a major role in caring for the child.
Pamela emphasised that she has been solely responsible for providing everything her son needs, including food, clothing, school fees, and general upkeep.
For years, she had no idea where the baby daddy was or whether he was even alive.
The TikToker expressed shock and frustration after learning that the same man who once wanted nothing to do with the child is now allegedly demanding custody.
Pamela questioned his intentions, arguing that someone cannot abandon a child for years and suddenly return to claim parental rights without having contributed to the child’s life in any way.
Her emotional revelation has sparked widespread debate on social media. Many users sympathised with Pamela, praising her strength as a single mother, while others urged her to seek legal advice and prepare for a possible court battle.
Some commenters warned that custody cases can be unpredictable, while others accused the man of chasing attention or clout.
By tuko