Gospel singer and pastor Size 8 has spoken candidly about why she chose to marry her husband, DJ Mo, even though he was not financially established when they decided to start their life together. Speaking in an interview released on Saturday, July 4, she said the decision was guided more by character and shared values than by money.
The singer explained that finances became a topic during marriage preparations, including discussions around dowry. At the time, DJ Mo was still building his career and did not have significant financial resources. Even so, she said her family, particularly her mother, never viewed his financial situation as a reason to oppose the marriage.
According to Size 8, her mother encouraged the family to accept whatever DJ Mo was able to present. She recalled being reassured that financial success could come with time, provided the relationship was built on commitment, respect and genuine intentions.
She said her mother’s advice left a lasting impression because it shifted the focus from immediate wealth to long-term potential. Rather than judging a partner by what they owned at the time, her mother believed it was more important to consider the person’s character, work ethic and willingness to grow.
Size 8 also revealed that her mother preferred she marry someone with whom she could build a future instead of joining the life of someone who was already fully established. In her view, relationships become stronger when both partners contribute to their shared journey instead of one person simply fitting into a life that has already been built.
The singer explained that this perspective shaped her understanding of marriage. She said her mother believed couples who overcome challenges together often develop deeper respect and appreciation for each other’s sacrifices and achievements. She added that those lessons have continued to influence how she approaches marriage and family life.
Her remarks have added to ongoing conversations about the role finances play in modern relationships. While financial stability remains an important consideration for many couples, her story highlights another perspective—that qualities such as trust, commitment and shared goals can also influence life-changing decisions.
Size 8 and DJ Mo have publicly shared both joyful and difficult moments throughout their marriage over the years, making their relationship one of Kenya’s most closely followed celebrity unions. Their openness about personal experiences has often sparked wider discussions on marriage, family life and the realities couples face behind the spotlight.
Her latest reflections offer a glimpse into the values that influenced one of the most important decisions in her life. Rather than presenting wealth as the foundation of a successful marriage, she suggested that patience, mutual support and the willingness to grow together can be just as important in building a lasting partnership.