Former Inooro TV presenter Muthoni Mukiri opened up on how she once dated a narcissist for two years something that left her traumatized.
According to Muthoni, it’s something she would not like anyone else to go through.
Below are common traits to help you know you are dating a narcissist.
They are manipulative
Always wanting to twist your arm to make sure things go their way.
He will physically and mentally abuse you and then make it look like it’s your fault even when it’s not.
They are insecure and controlling
Most want to know everything you are doing even when it involves your family.
This is even though you are just dating and you are not officially married. They will want to know why you were laughing with a certain guy or where you went after work.
Most of them even prefer to come to pick you up so that ‘usiende kuhanya’
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Most of them are stalkers
They will track your car, your phone, and every other channel they think you can use to lie to them.
So paranoid are they that they even use other phone numbers and try to see if you are cheating on them.
Over showering you with love/Love bombarding
A narcissist knows how to be romantic, he will buy you flowers, take you on dates and vacations among other things.
This he does when he is at fault and wants to ‘confuse’ you so that you do not find out their true identity.
So if you are dating such a man, run my sister run.
