Kenyan singer Nadia Mukami has opened up about the difficult reality of balancing motherhood, music and personal wellbeing, revealing that she is currently operating in what she described as “survival mode.”
The award-winning musician shared her struggles through a social media video, explaining that managing her children’s needs while preparing for performances has left her physically and emotionally drained.
Nadia said one of the biggest challenges has been balancing her busy entertainment schedule with her desire to remain present in her son’s life. Despite her demanding career, she revealed that she makes an effort to take her son to school every day as a way of creating a strong bond with him.
The singer explained that the long school commute, late nights and upcoming performances have affected her rest and routine.
“I just dropped my son off at school, and I haven’t slept well. I have my show coming up, and I have my small kids. I have to be there to drop him off at school every day, and it’s quite a distance from where we live,” Nadia shared.
She admitted that her busy schedule has caused her to arrive late at school on some occasions, but she remains committed to spending quality time with her child.
Nadia said that when people ask her how she manages to balance motherhood and her career, her honest answer is that she does not have a perfect formula.
“Someone asked me, ‘How do you balance motherhood?’ I told them, ‘I don’t.’ I’m just surviving. I’m on survival mode right now,” she said.
The musician also revealed that the pressure has affected her mental wellbeing, noting that she experiences anxiety as she tries to meet the demands of parenting and her career.
Her honesty attracted support from many Kenyans online, with fans encouraging her to prioritize self-care, seek support and avoid putting too much pressure on herself.
Some advised her to consider getting additional help at home, while others praised her dedication to being actively involved in her child’s upbringing.
Many mothers related to Nadia’s experience, noting that motherhood often comes with challenges that require patience, support and resilience.
The singer’s confession has sparked conversations about the struggles faced by working parents, especially those trying to balance professional success with family responsibilities.
Nadia Mukami, known for hits such as “Keshine” and “Wangu,” continues to be one of Kenya’s prominent female musicians.
Her openness about the realities of motherhood has earned her admiration from fans who appreciate her willingness to share both her achievements and challenges.