For years, Sarah Mtalii (formerly Sarah Kabu) and her husband Simon Kabu were the face of Kenyan “couple goals.” As the founders of the multi-million dollar travel empire, Bonfire Adventures, they showcased a life of luxury, global travel, and romantic gestures. However, in a series of candid revelations throughout late 2024 and early 2025, Sarah has pulled back the curtain on the cracks that eventually led to their high-profile separation.
The Timeline of Turbulence
While the public only saw the breakdown in recent years, Sarah revealed that the internal struggle began much earlier. According to her recent interviews, the emotional disconnect dates back several years, even as they continued to build their brand together.
- 2022: The Emotional Exit: Sarah disclosed that she “mentally and emotionally” left the marriage as early as 2022. Despite this, she remained in the union for another two years to protect their children and the stability of their business.
- The “Misri” Revelation: Sarah likened her matrimonial home to “Misri” (Egypt)—a biblical reference to a place of bondage and hardship. She explained that the decision to finally leave in late 2024 was driven by a need for peace and mental well-being.
- Failed Interventions: In an interview on Dr. Ofweneke’s podcast in early 2025, Sarah shared the extent of their efforts to save the marriage, revealing they had consulted three different marriage counselors over a five-year period.
The Factors Behind the Fallout
Sarah has been vocal about specific issues that eroded the foundation of their relationship. What was once seen as a seamless partnership was actually strained by several key factors, including allegations of cheating with multiple partners.
By Ghafla