Prophet Victor Kanyari got divorced by Kikuyu singer Betty Bayo, because they had an irreconcilable differences. Betty got engaged to Kenyan celebrity Hiram Gitau, and they invited Kanyari. Kanyari refused to attend the wedding, even though he was invited.
You should know that relationships is one of the hardest thing to maintain, if both partners are not serious. Many people got married happily in a colourful wedding, but they got divorced. You should never make your ex-lover to become your greatest enemy, because you don’t know what tomorrow holds.
You should always wish your ex-lover well, after you have separated. You should wish him or her peace and prosperity in his or her next relationship, so that you can have a peace of mind. You will never move on in life, if you harbour grudges in your life.
You deserve to live a peaceful life, therefore you should never let grudge and hatred control you. You will have a very difficult time, if you make your ex-lover to become your enemy. There are some people who did that they ended up having a lot of problems, because their ex-lover denied them access to see their children.
Some ladies also made their ex-lovers to become their enemies, and they ended up having a lot of problems. Their ex-lover refused to take the responsibilities of the children that they got together. You don’t know who will help you when you are problem or in great danger, because some people have been helped by their ex-lovers several times.
You should attend a function organized by your ex-lover, if he or she invites you. You doesn’t have to become great enemies, after you broke up. Kanyari never went to the wedding of his ex-wife, after he was invited.
He should have went to at least wish her well, and things could have been better between them now.
by: Emperor77