Maina Kageni’s morning conversation went viral today as the man brought up a deeply divisive topic, talking about Kenyan women investing in their men.
“Apparently, women of nowadays don’t invest in their men,” he added.
King’ang’i himself had this to say, “You have to invest in your man. Hiyo pesa ya chama si umpatie afungue biashara.”
The comments came hard and fast with very many diverse opinions that I can’t even summarise cleanly. Read them below:
Maina I see potential in my husband but I don’t see us going far because I earn 600k and he earns 100k, so I need someone who is in the same level as me.”
Letting a woman invest in you is a big mistake. You are handing over the ‘instruments of power’. You will be a puppet in your own family.
The fear that women have is brought about by their peers and the older female gender who always spill the negativity of their past relationship or marriages. Women will always look at the negative cause they can’t forget the bad but the good its easy for them to forget.
Ata wao watupige support,, they should remember that you are everyday’s breadwinner, whether you have money or not.
Most women believe that their money is only for them therefore they can’t invest in their men.
It’s hard for Kenyan women to invest in their men. This because nowadays a lady earning more than her man doesn’t trust him.
Ni Urimu.
The other gender – people who listened to a snake and brought this all sufferings in the world need not to support us. Ile kukutangaza watakutangaza village ata kuku haitakua na heshima having sex in front of you.
Your statement is contradictory. You don’t see any potential in him. Kuna siku utapoteza na wewe uchekwe
This woman is just nuts, coz that’s not love she has it’s like she’s there for money only.
Ladies need to be careful because hawa watu wanaweza kugeuka.
Absolutely true these men are chameleons!!Vigeugeu!
So because you gave him money and invited he can’t breath? If you help someone don’t be thinking he or she will do the same learn to continue doing what you used to do
It all depends on the trust in one another.
Sometimes it’s risky investing in men. My husband lost his job so I bought him a car ndio afanye biashara ya kuuza vitu nayo. Three months later he started treating me badly and I know he is making money. When I ask him for money, anasema hana pesa.
Don’t judge all men, not all the same, but it will depends mnapelekana na yeye aje na wapi . So your own marriage is all about both of you and not to other people out there.
I’ve heard that lady and she’s just speaking with anger and hatred. Before she got married to the man, how much did the guy spend on her? Those white candle ? dinner amesahau how it costed him? Wakubali kulipa madeni later in life.
This is very scary! It’s very risky investing in these men!! Most of them are very ungrateful!!!
As it’s always been said, a man is most humble when broke.
Like I just said she will remind you till you die did you hear the last caller.
Investing in someone foolishly could be a waste at times, modern day relationships are so unpredictable, u wed today, the next day u find urself in a divorce court, it’ll better writing an agreement so that ur able 2 get back ur resources kukiharibika.
If only you treated us well right from the beginning,we would treat you like kings and even trust you with our ATM cards, but you treated us like crap from the word go. Don’t blame us.
Nowadays ladies please don’t cheat yourself ati treating them well utanyonywa mpaka ubaki.
Hiyo upus siwezi fanya…
