Media personality Nick Ndeda and his wife Muthoni Gitau have said they never want to have kids and nothing can change that.
According to the couple they have intentionally chosen to live a childfree life.
Speaking via their YouTube channel dubbed ‘Just Doing Life’ Nick says,
‘AT 17 I WAS IN HIGH SCHOOL AND MY OLDER BROTHER AND I KNEW WE DID NOT WANT KIDS. WHEN WE GOT TO CHILD BEARING AGE OUR MUM WAS LIKE ‘KUMBE YOU GUYS WERE SERIOUS?’ AND I WAS LIKE YEAH, I NEVER WANT TO HAVE CHILDREN.
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FOR ME IT’S NEVER BEEN AN ISSUE. OUR OTHER BROTHER WAS OPEN TO HAVING KIDS AND SO FAR HE HAS 2. 60% OF PEOPLE ONLY HAVE KIDS DUE TO SOCIETAL PRESSURE, FEAR OF BEING ALONE, LEAVING A LEGACY. HAVE KIDS FOR A REASON THAT MAKES SENSE.
According to Muthoni she knew from a young age she never wanted to have kids and she is done explaining herself to anyone.
Describing herself on her YouTube channel Muthoni says,
‘I’VE ALWAYS KNOWN I WAS NOT GOING TO HAVE CHILDREN FROM A VERY YOUNG AGE. WHEN I FIRST SAID IT, THOSE AROUND ME ASSUMED I WOULD CHANGE MY MIND AT SOME POINT. LAST YEAR, I TURNED 30 AND NOW IT SEEMS LIKE PEOPLE ARE HELL BENT ON MAKING SURE I HAVE A CHILD OR EXPLAIN WHY I WON’T. THE INTERESTING BIT IS THAT MOST OF THESE QUESTIONS ARE BY STRANGERS, PEOPLE WITH NO STAKE IN MY LIFE. JUST REMEMBER, HAVING CHILDREN IS A CHOICE. ‘
In conclusion she says,
I DON’T CARE HOW MUCH YOU LOVE ME OR HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU ,YOU CAN NEVER CONVINCE ME TO HAVE A CHILD.

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