What is the solution a man employs to get rid of a woman? Misbehave until she cant take it anymore. That’s the thought a Kenyan woman penned down on her Twitter to explain why men cant tell a woman it’s over.
She wrote down ‘Men don’t say it’s over. They misbehave till you get tired and walk away. It’s called constructive breakup. They do this so they can come back and access you whenever they want to. Back to you in studio.’
She also insisted it’s a strategy so they blame you for the breakup and leave a possibility of them returning to you when and if it suits them.
Her comments elicited mixed reaction.
@Gmudany2
It’s also known as the “ahole technique” i.e. a guy being an ahole to you till you walk away, hence the term. They also do this when they’re not interested in you.
Which is unfortunate, coz I much prefer a guy just being straightforward with me over that. Just being honest.
@Makwene1
I did this and my ex wouldn’t let it go…I had to sit her down and ask her “What’s your deal?”! She was a bull that one… just a different breed!
@Gobi_from_samia
Some women don’t actually leave bana
No matter how much you disrespect them
@njustchillin
Nah silence kills. Leave them on read and don’t even give them the courtesy of a response. It will mess with their psyche the way they messed with yours.
@shandu_sicelo
I know it is a coward’s way out but women don’t take a direct break up well. You end up chickening out and staying another 6 months.
@thejemses
Well since you brought it up, lemme give you the facts. We misbehave so we give you the ‘dignity’ of telling your girls ‘I left him’ reverse psychology nanii!
@Mslenah_
That is why they moment a man starts acting differently and distant,you should leave and cut off all communication completely.
Change the calibre of men you are dating, some of us tell you straight on your face ‘if wanna go just go’ but no woman would leave such a straight forward man
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