Dear men, if you are not giving your wife money for the salon how do you think she manages to look so smart? Another man is sending her money.
In a conversation on Thursday November 18 about women not helping men out financially, it was revealed it’s because wives fear their husbands will bless their side chicks with the money.
Kingangi then asked why wives assume all men have another woman. He accused wives of assuming things about ‘imaginary’ girlfriends out there.
Maina began the morning topic to challenge women to respond to Kingangi ‘there is something that he says must come to an end this year. That you can’t help your man because everytime you give a man pesa itakuliwa na mwanamke mwingine. He wants to know who is this imaginary woman that is eating your money? This assumption has to end this year, how come men never say wewe pesa zangu zinakuliwa na mwingine huko inje? Ati you think that nikimsaidia na pesa atakula na mwanamke mwingine?
Mwalimu interrupted asking, ‘mgani huyo?’ and your man is suffering hana pesa, yet you have the money you can’t help him’
Maian opened up the discussion tot he audience ‘are those assumptions ladies, every woman suspects their man let’s be honest’ Maina added
‘And they are just innocent’ Mwalimu added,
A wife told Maian that men are weak
‘We know our men are giving other women our money, so we are married and eating other mens money, sasa Maina, this other married man has called me out for coffee, I have gone with my car it has used fuel where do you want the money for fuel to come from? Of course they give you fuel, nimeona aka nice dress, these men will give you money to buy all these things. Mabwana zetu are for big investments like houses and school fees. Those other smal small things like hair are paid for by other men out there. We re eating other mens money and you want me to give my husband money so that he can give another woman? Never!!
Two other women weighed in with their experiences
- ‘That assumption will never end, men are weak, they are very weak, unasikia carol amemucall anamwambiasina lunch anatumiwa, mwingine anacall anasema sina fare anatumiwa. Sasa wewe umewachio mia mbili za kupika, haya unasikia tena gas imeisha na huyo anatumiwa. So you see Maina men are weak, ebu vaa skirt ofisi utembee uone vile wanaume watakutumia lunch. They are weak you will be sent for money for your hair and nails’
- ‘Kingangi wewe ndio unatetea mafisi kwa nini Kingangi kwa nini? men ni mafisi wacha nikuambia bwana yangu alikuwa anafanya kazi ya ofisi unfortuntely ikaish hakua anajua kazi ingine aliingi jua kali, alikua anatoka ameparara, midomo imeparara, Maina acha nikuambie aliteseka akakuja kupata pesa, alirudi akashika laini kabisa heeh sasa akaanza kupigania na wanawake, anamaliza siku tatu hajakuja nyumbani nilikua nimekonda nyama ananunua, pombe ndio hiyona hataki kuniongelesha’
BY CLASSIC 105