Renowned gospel artist Justina Syokau recently shared candidly about her nearly decade-long dry spell following her divorce.
Syokau, best known for her hit song “Twendi Twendi,” tied the knot in 2012, only to see her marriage dissolve the following year.
In a heartfelt revelation, Syokau expressed her perspective on relationships and emphasized the importance of responsibility in a partner.
“These days, I’m not interested in a man who is only good at fleeting pleasures. These days, I desire a responsible man,” Syokau remarked, stressing that men should bring more to the table than just love and physical intimacy.
Syokau underscored the significance of financial stability and partnership in her future relationships.
“When you are responsible, we can address other aspects of the relationship. If a man cannot contribute to rent and utility bills, he will simply be a burden. Even if he excels in other areas, he must be willing to work. You won’t hire a girl and expect a man to be idle,” Syokau elaborated.
Speaking during an interview with Comedian Consumator on his TruthBeTold show on YouTube, Syokau candidly reflected on her singlehood, expressing contentment with her freedom.
“Being single is enjoyable because you’re free, and it’s almost nine years since I walked out of my marriage. Nilitoka na mtoto kijana nikaamua nyege kwanza niweke nje. Juu hii feeling imeniingiza kwa matatizo (I left my marriage with a child and decided to be celibate because i didn’t want to get into temptation again) and I have whom I need to take care of his responsibilities.”
Syokau stressed the importance of staying true to oneself and avoiding potentially harmful situations.
“Heri kuwa na dry spell kuliko kujiingiza kwa majaribu. Uende uzae na kimtu ujikute wewe ndio unalea peke yako (It’s better to be on a dry spell than get yourself into temptation. Get a child with a man who would leave you to raise it along),” she said.
Acknowledging the challenges of her journey, Syokau admitted that maintaining celibacy isn’t easy, particularly for those who struggle to control their desires.However, she affirmed her dedication to her chosen path.
“Nimekuwa dry spell kwa sababu naogopa kuingia kwa shida yengine (I have been on dry spell for this long because I’m scared of getting another child),” she said.
By Newsday