In 1959, during Kenya’s colonial era, John Kimuyu Kalendo, a visually impaired Kenyan, and Ruth Holloway, a British missionary, broke social and racial barriers by becoming the first interracial couple to register their marriage in the country. Their love story was one of resilience, courage, and defiance against deeply ingrained societal norms.
Kimuyu’s Early Life and Education
Born in Mwala, Machakos County, Kimuyu lost his eyesight at the age of two due to an illness. Despite limited opportunities for Africans at the time, he pursued his education with determination. In 1949, he enrolled at the Thika School for the Blind but had to take a break due to health issues. He returned in 1953 and excelled in his studies.
Meeting Ruth Holloway
Ruth Holloway, originally from Nottingham, England, trained as a missionary at William Booth College in London. As part of her work, she was encouraged to integrate into local communities. When she was posted to Kenya, she began teaching braille at the Thika School for the Blind, where she met Kimuyu. Their shared passion for education soon blossomed into a deep relationship.
Overcoming Opposition
Their love faced strong opposition from both colonial authorities and local communities, as interracial marriages were rare and controversial. Ruth lost her job due to their relationship and faced criticism even from her family back in the UK. However, she remained committed, purchasing a wedding ring and hiding it in a cake before returning to Kenya by ship.
On January 23, 1959, despite societal disapproval and threats, Kimuyu and Ruth exchanged vows in a simple ceremony attended by only two of Kimuyu’s female relatives.
A Lasting Legacy
Kimuyu passed away in November 2023 and was laid to rest in Makueni County. His life and love story with Ruth remain a powerful symbol of perseverance and the ability to defy all odds in pursuit of happiness.
By WhownsKenya