Almost four years after the untimely death of his wife Reginah Katar, music producer Tedd Josiah says he isn’t ready to remarry.
Tedd who is the founder of Joka Joka, a company he established to honor his wife’s memory says he is not ready to settle for less.
RIP! Photos of the life and times of Tribeka boss, the late Martin Nkonge
Through his social media, Tedd shared,
WHY ITS HARD FOR ME TO REMARRY I’VE HAD A LOT OF QUESTIONS ABOUT THIS ISSUE AND LET ME PUT IT OUT CLEAR.
RAISING A GIRL ?? WITH A VERY STRONG CHARACTER PERSONALITY MEANS SHE’S GOT TO BE COMFORTABLE THAT THE PERSON IN MY LIFE IS NOT HERE TO BREAK HER BUT TO BUILD HER UP. AM BUILDING THE DREAMS OF A GREAT LADY WHO PASSED AWAY WITH THE WISH THAT HER LEGACY WOULD LIVE ON. SHE IS THE “KA” IN JO-KA-JOK (JOSIAH-KATAR-JOSIAH). HOW MANY WOMEN WOULD MARRY A MAN BUSY BUILDING AN EMPIRE FOR HIS DAUGHTER TO INHERIT FROM HER LATE MOTHER?
Tedd added that given that most women are not serious nowadays dating has become twice as hard.
‘THE DATING GAME IN NOWADAYS IF FULL OF MEN/ WOMEN READY TO HAVE A FLING FOR A MOMENT AND A GOOD TIME. BUT NO ONES READY TO ROLL UP THEIR SLEEVES AND SAY “AM HERE FOR IT ALL, THE GOOD TIMES AND THE BAD TIMES, THE HIGHS AND LOWS” IN-FACT WHEN YOU HIT A LOW PATCH EVEN YOUR FRIENDS AND EMPLOYEES START TO LOOK AT YOU LIKE A PERSON WITH LEPROSY THINKING THAT MONEY IS FOREVER FLOWING NOT KNOWING THAT LIFE IS A JOURNEY OF UPS AND DOWNS. DON’T GET ME WRONG, LOVE 
AND FINDING A SOULMATE IS AN EXTREMELY BEAUTIFUL THING.’
In conclusion Tedd added that if he was to get married he wants someone to build him and not just take from him.
‘BUT IT GETS TO A POINT IN LIFE WERE IF SHE AIN’T COMING TO BUILD WITH YOU. IF SHE’S HE’S GONNA KEEP U WAITING HOLDING ON AND HOPING SHE/ HE WILL CHOOSE YOU WHILE SHE/ HE EXAMINES OTHER OPTIONS AS A HUMAN YOU NEED TO FOCUS AND THE GOALS DREAMS AND AMBITIONS YOU HAVE WITHOUT THE WEIGHT OF A CONFUSED HEART AND SOME JUST COME TO CONFUSE YOUR HEART AND AD WEIGHT TO IT.
TO HAVE A LIFE PARTNER IS TO HAVE A PERSON THAT BELIEVES IN YOU, NOT YOUR MONEY, NOT YOUR STATUS NOT THE MATERIAL THINGS YOU OWN BUT YOU AS A HUMAN.
I HAD THAT, TO SETTLE FOR LESS THAN WHAT I HAD IS IMPOSSIBLE.
THIS IS MY CURRENT FRAME OF MIND
LIVE ? LOVE ? LAUGH ?
