Today, I want to throw some insights into where women mess up when it comes to romantic relationships.
- Overstepping their position
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There’s a reason why you are a girlfriend and not a wife. Don’t try to take up wifely duties for a guy who hasn’t ask you to be his other half. Acting like one only makes the guy angry. From here, things can nose diver real quick and trying to get them back in position can be a daunting assignment. If you are a girlfriend play along that line of duty.
I went on a date with another man while still seeing you – Diana Marua tells Bahati - Camping
It all starts with subtle signs. Leaving your panty, your toothbrush, your earing, lip balm etc. As the visits intensify, more things get “forgotten” in a man’s house. How a woman ends up being part of the occupants of the house, only God knows. However, this move has caused many men to chase women out of their houses. Don’t make yourself part of the deal you signed alone. Utafukuzwa usiku wa manane! - Nagging
This comes as a default setting for women but some are too much. We love the drama as men. It keeps us in check. But sometimes things can go too far. We hate a woman who complains for the bigger part of the day.
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It becomes stressful. There’s already too much stress out here and we seek peace back home. You can’t be part of our headache. The issue has never been what you say but rather how you say it.
He hawked mabuyu: Things you didn’t know about late Msambweni MP Suleiman Dori - Marriage pressure
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Past 27 years, most women desperately want to settle down with a man. It’s no wonder some of them will start asking when you plan to propose to them and your future plans with them. As men, we don’t like this type of pressure. Maybe you ain’t even who we want to settle with. Be calm and wait for that proposal. If you feel that it’s a long time to come through, you can as well hit the exit door.