Most people are still single because they have chosen to stay single.
Some wonder why they don’t seem to have found the one when everyone around them seems to be in a relationship. But it is better to make sure that you are not under the illusion that you will never be complete without meeting the one. There are so many things to learn from when you are in a relationship and everyone deserves a chance, so why could you not seem to find the one? Your reason could be mentioned down below.
The right person has not located you –You might find it frustrating but it is what it is and it is normal. So you should practice patience coz one day this right person will locate you.
Could be having fear to compete– this goes hand in hand with low self-esteem. When you see another woman dressing so nicely in expensive clothes, jewelry, and beautiful too. You’ll look down on yourself and say you could never find a man when you do not have the same looks. When you finally meet someone who is in love with you, you leave them saying they could do better. Our fear of competition may lead us not to put ourselves out there.
Low self-esteem– some people want to get in a relationship and at the same time feel that no one would ever accept them if they have issues with weight.
You have been heartbroken before – Character development and heartbreak go hand in hand in Kenya. The terrible experience makes many afraid to give it a go, imagining it could happen all over again.
You could not be going out much – being an introvert is not a bad thing, however if you want to increase your chances of dating, you must put yourself out there and meet new people, you have to go out and build a network. Potential partners are not going to magically come to you if you are always sitting in your room. Go out and meet new people every day.
BY CLASSIC 105
