Mwalimu Kingangi wants wives to stop comparing their husbands to other men.
On the Friday March 26 morning conversation, Maina and Kingangi referred to a mans comments on Thursday who said women have a bad habit of comparing men.
‘yesterday we listended to men crying, aki they cried and one gentleman said something that Kenyan ladies do and that thing has been the cause off all problems with their partners, that drives a wedge between you and your man’
Malimu jumped in and told Maina ‘stop beating around the bush, they like comparing us na hiyo ni makosa kubwa sana because we don’t especially when someone is your wife you stop comparing, they compare us with everything’
‘but if it’s true ?’ Maina asked
Mwalimu told women to stop it ‘they tell us bad things, it hurts us’
‘When your wife compares you to another man isn’t that encouraging you? Maina questioned Kingangi
He said ‘no, that’s why men don’t tell their wives anything’
Maina opned the discussion to the audience ‘ladies why do you compare your man to other men? I thought it’s to make them better, when they compare you to their neighbor she is seeing something you can also do’ He added ‘ Ladies, do you realize how that is damaging ladies now that you have heard from Kingangi?’
‘don’t do that, everybody has their speed, kila mtu on their own lane’ Kingangi said
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