Masseurs to radio girls and waitress jobs make men insecure
On the Thursday March 10th conversation, Maina and Kingangi debated whether certain jobs make men insecure.
Maina told that ‘Ladies I need you to come here because there are some things that you need to choose carefully and that is the kind of work you go into. Choose the kind of work you go into very carefully otherwise you will be single forever. I had an interesting conversation with gentlemen and they said there are jobs you need to avoid, like masseur. or you will remain single forever. There is no man who can be comfortable knowing you are going to a spa, yet he also goes there and knows what goes on. If you are one of those ladies who gives men head and back massages, you will be left. ama he will never marry you. Those ladies at the Barbershop are very important to your man, he even knows when it’s her foo days and will wait until she comes. That is why he doesnt want you to have the same job. Those are harzadous jobs for women’
King’angi also gave another job example ‘ama a lady dj. unajua kuna kazi anajieka kwa frontlien ya battle kukutana na temptation koso koso, if she is a waitress shd is being slapped around, ni kazi mingi men have problems with, zile zitakusumbua, zile makazi unaona hapa ako endangered species and the men ataleta shida’
Maina understood what Kingangi was saying teasing him ‘the men dont want to imagine his wife goign through the same thing, how do you cope?’
Kingangi also added anotyher job ‘ata radio jobs, hapa tuu si uangalie how many are married, kazi ni mingi wanaume wako na issue nazo, wanaangalia hivi wanaona competition, men don’t like competition, ako frontline lazima ako ukraine kwa border, weuh’
Maina asked him ‘so what do you want these ladies to do they need jobs? where is the insecurity coming from? what is wrong if your wife works in a lounge? shida iko wapi?’
An offended Kingangi painfully told Maina to stop jokes and it hurts to think about it ‘hii kitu unaonge kama jokes, inakua ngumu imagine your wife is a waitress and we men spank these ladies, so another man is doign the same to your wife’
BY CLASSIC 105
