First dates can be a bit scary and overwhelming but thats normal.
Everyone gets super nervous with millions of questions running through their mind on what kind of impression you’ll leave on the other person and how the night will end.
As a lady looking for a serious or a casual relationship, avoid the following killer mistakes on your first date and the date will be a memorable one.
Turning up late
It is quite annoying to wait up for a lady for over an hour unless there is an emergency that has happened.
Always ensure that you do not keep your partner waiting for long because it kills the mood of the date. If you are running late, text or call your date and notify them as early as possible.
Constantly being on phone
Ladies have a habit of constantly being on the phone, texting, laughing and being constantly distracted is a big deal-breaker on a date.
It’s good to give your partner a heads up in case you are awaiting an important call or email as a way of being courteous.
Talking incessantly.
Talking constantly without stopping and not giving your date a chance is soo annoying and kills the vibe of the day.
It’s not bad to talk about yourself, life experiences and your expectations but always make it a conversation of two and let the conversation flow naturally.
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Digging about his past.
Being interested in your partner’s love life is good and healthy but there are borders that you should not cross on the first date.
Asking soo many questions about their ex and making your conversations revolve around his previous relationships is always a deal-breaker.
It’s good to give them time and the platform to open up their past without having to pressurize them.
Ordering very expensive meals and drinks
Instead of being the one to order what to eat or drink on your first date, let the man do the honors since he is the one who invited you not the other way round.
You can also offer to split the bill where one can pay for the drinks and the other pays for the food to show him that even in the future you are ready to help and that you are an independent woman.
Jumping the gun
Feeling close and connected to a guy on the first day is very normal but never appear too desperate to be married or in a relationship no matter how much you are into the guy.
Dating is a process and a good healthy relationship is built over time.
Expressing insecurities on the first date
Being honest and transparent with your date builds trust but that does not mean you should talk about your insecurities and personal problem on your first date.
Give yourself time till you feel comfortable with this person.
Ladies, its our time we make men look forward to having us over for a next date.
BY MPASHO NEWS
