Nurse Judy has defended her decision to openly express love and care for her husband after facing criticism from women who take issue with her cooking and serving him breakfast.
The nurse recently addressed the criticism in a social media post shared by Nairobi Gossip Club. She said she has repeatedly been called a pick me whenever she shares content showing how she treats her husband.
Judy questioned why simple acts of affection within marriage have become controversial. She wondered why preparing breakfast for one’s husband could attract negative comments from other women.
She explained that the criticism is not limited to Kenya, suggesting that women in other countries also face similar reactions when they publicly show affection towards their partners.
According to Judy, some people seem to associate treating a husband well with seeking approval from men. She disagreed with this perception, arguing that loving and appreciating one’s partner should not be a reason for public ridicule.
The nurse also revealed that she has dealt with the pick me label for years. However, she said the comments do not discourage her from sharing her experiences.
Instead, Judy explained that she sometimes turns the criticism and direct messages she receives into content for her social media platforms. She noted that the reactions often generate engagement, making the experience worthwhile for her.
Her message was accompanied by a video raising questions about the growing criticism of women who openly appreciate their husbands. It also questioned why negative attitudes towards husbands appear to have become acceptable in some online spaces.
Judy’s remarks have drawn attention to differing opinions about marriage, gender expectations and public displays of affection. While some people believe partners should freely express love in their relationships, others have different views about traditional marital roles.
Her position, however, remains clear: she does not believe that showing her husband love should make her a target of criticism.