Kenyan entertainer Obidan Dela has stirred debate on social media after sharing his opinion about how some men behave when visiting women.
The entertainer criticised men who frequently visit women at their homes but arrive empty handed. According to him, the situation becomes worse when the woman does not even pay rent for the house she lives in.
Dela said men should rethink such behaviour and start carrying themselves with more self respect. In his view, a man should at least bring something small when visiting a woman. This could be groceries, snacks, or any small item to show effort and appreciation.
His comments were shared on Instagram by the entertainment page spmbuzzke where they quickly attracted attention from social media users. The post gathered more than 1,500 likes within a short period and generated many reactions in the comment section.
Some people agreed with the entertainer and said he was raising an important issue about effort and responsibility in relationships. A number of users argued that visiting someone empty handed shows a lack of seriousness and respect.
Others said the message should encourage men to think carefully about their standards and the situations they place themselves in when pursuing relationships.
However, not everyone supported Dela’s opinion. Some social media users felt the remarks were unfair and one sided. They argued that relationships should not always involve material expectations and that people visit each other for many different reasons.
Despite the mixed reactions, the comments have continued to attract attention online. Many people have continued sharing their opinions on whether bringing something while visiting a partner should be considered normal behaviour.
The discussion has also raised broader questions about expectations in modern relationships and how both men and women show effort when spending time together.
Dela’s remarks have clearly divided opinion, but they have also started a conversation that many social media users appear willing to continue.