Never chase love, affection, or attention, if it isn’t given freely to you by another person, then it is not worth it.
Diverts your attention from the things that truly matters
If your main focus is to chase a woman/man it diverts your attention from actually pursuing things that really matter in life.
Rather than chasing anyone, focus on your dreams and once you become successful, what you desire will chase after you.
You come across as desperate and pathetic
This occurs especially when the feeling is not mutual, the love is not reciprocated and is completely unrequited.
When ladies are not feeling you or do not find you attractive in any way appealing, they will always keep avoiding you and ignoring you most of the time.
When a woman says no, just walk and move on with your life. Cut your losses and move on, there are plenty of fish in the sea.
The chase will never stop
If you begin a relationship with someone and you are always the only one who is doing the chasing then hapo kuna kashida.
For starters when you met, you actively chased, pursued her, and over time you were successful and you won his/her attention.
Now you have to work hard and overtime to be able to maintain that attention they are giving you because you already set the precedent.
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It undermines your worth
If you chase mercilessly and aimlessly chase someone, it automatically puts you below them and they will always disregard your worth as a man.
At the same time, you are unconsciously placing them on a pedestal.
Their behaviour will speak volumes as they will accord you no respect nor treat you right at any given time. Every woman needs an Alpha with the masculinity and dominance features in her life. And Every man needs a woman who has the right amount of feminine energy.
Step up your game and earn the respect as the king/queen you are.
Makes them feel entitled
If you chase a woman/man it will inflate their ego making them feel entitled and expect you to always chase them and cater to their every need.
They will get accustomed to that kind of behavior and will never reciprocate because they will not see the need to pursue you back.
They will get too comfortable and when you cut the chase they will get you the attitude complaining that they are the price.
Love has to be reciprocated, it is mutual for it to be a healthy one as you operate as a unit.
BY MPASHO NEWS
