Do you have to ask or beg for money from your spouse?
Financial bullying in relationships is real.
If you find that your spouse or partner goes overboard on the monthly budget or your spouse blames you for overspending, then he/she can be a financial bully.
Here are red flags that should guide you on bullying before your life spirals out of control
Unexplained withdrawals from the bank
Unusual activity in the bank accounts
Unpaid bills
Unexplained shortage of money
Reluctance on the part of the person with responsibility for the funds to provide basic food and clothes etc
Fraud/wash wash
Theft
Prevents you from having access to account information
Makes poor decisions involving your credit
Discourages you from furthering your career or making more money
Makes significant investments without consulting you
Threatens to cut you off from the money
