Long-distance relationships requires a lot to make it work and finding someone who is willing to beat the odds is an amazing thing.
Not being able to see your spouse every day and physically connect can make someone feel somehow disconnected .
Doing the simple things and involving each other frequently can impeccably keep the intimacy flowing.
Here are tips on how to keep that fire burning and make that long-distance relationship work.
Morning and evening checkups.
Sending a sweet good morning text will raise their spirits hence making their day better and brighter
Even at lunch breaks, make a point of checking in and exchanging a few words and once you get back home, take advantage of the free time.
Creating time for your partner is very important as it clearly shows that you deeply care about their well-being and you are emotionally supportive.
Visit one another in the places you live
Knowing where your partner lives is very important because emergencies can arise and you are needed to go be with them.
Traveling is fun and adventurous but at the same time it also has its cons but the pros outweigh the cons.
Getting to visit your partner’s apartment can tell you more about their lifestyle, hygiene levels, their finances, and what they value most.
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Surprise each other with gifts
Be creative and thoughtful by getting your partner what they love most and satisfy their cravings by getting their favourite foods in person or delivery.
Knowing what your partner loves and surprising them often will create a tighter bond between the two of you.
You don’t have to wait up for special occasions such as birthdays and anniversaries for you to gift your partner because that will be too obvious and not as sweet.
Always plan an in-person outing.
Planning for an in-person outing helps you to psychologically prepare for the day.
Marking a date on our calendar helps us to properly plan your schedule, clear appointments for the day, and avail ourselves fully.
It also helps us to anticipate for the day to come and make prior arrangements.
Check-in with each other’s feelings
Our spouse’s emotional well-being should be our topmost priority. Asking questions such as, how are you feeling?
What is it that you need most from me? How can I support you?
By asking these questions shows how much you care for your partner and helps the partner reflect and share what is in their hearts and mind.
Don’t be afraid to se*text
Spicing up your conversations with sexual messages can trigger hormones that, make us feel good and miss our partners extremely.
If your partner is not comfortable with it, teach them how to do it, slowly, and eventually, they will adapt and love it.
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Prioritize each other
Always choose your partner and never let them feel like they come second to anyone or anything. With the distance and the demanding daily duties, committing to our partners fully and making them feel special should be our number one priority.
Once you start withdrawing and postponing plans will definitely break the bond and put out that candle.
If something feels off, talk about it
Sometimes we do go through a lot of emotions and we are unsure of how to feel about the distance between us.
It is important to be open and speak about anything making you feel insecure or even uncertain about your relationship as a whole.
If you feel like something is off and that you are no longer connecting as before, be open and confirm with your partner that you are on the same page.
Cherish your moments
Each and every moment you get to spend time with your spouse whether physically or over the phone, ensure that you live in the moment.
Every moment you get to have with your partner should be meaningful and the connection should be as powerful regardless of the distance
Look at the positives
Being in a long-distance relationship can seem like a bad thing but it also has certain benefits. One gets to enjoy self-independence, reflect on things and work on improving ourselves and making us better for our partners.
You also don’t conflict as much and you get to strengthen your bond because distance makes the heart grow fonder.
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